if you wanna create attraction, create emotion.

fight your natural urge to be nice, sharpen your tounge and take risks.

emotional rollercoaster

clung to opener, ran out of material. do not cling to an opener. his tonality is very high, he ran out of material, he was very uncomfortable in set.  do not run out of material, you've gotta have something to say.

issacos tonality is very high, hes coming across as a loser from his tonality and his body language  by having no material to say

i dont know is a very bad thing to say. dont repeat things over and over

have canned material planned, if not you'll run out of things to say. got blown out she even said "are you gonna take that?"

the guy who talks gets all the women? wrong

if a woman senses that you dont know what you are doing, she will walk off.

realistically, there will be girls who like you NO MATTER WHAT you say. and there will be girls who dont like you no matter what you say. you can never predict the outcome, thus, you can never be perfect.

when you see a hot girl you will start to think of awe inspiring things to say to her. the harder you search for them, the more you seem like youre trying to impress her. the more you try to impress her, the less likely it is that you will get her

can you develop real confidence from a barrage of pick up lines and tactics at the club?

ralk about things that you're passionate about, and you will speak with passion.

say whatever you feel like saying without fear of social consequence. be assertuve, and people will be more responsive to it.

free your mind.

make it not wierd to talk to strangers. talk to strangers everywhere you go, socially condition yourself to talk to them as if it were your own backyard

people go out to the club to meet new people. the club is a playground, if you didnt want to interact you just wanted to go out and get drunk you'd stay at home with your closest friends with loud music and good booze. but you go out to the club to interact, to meet cool new people.

if you get a shit test, plow through it. if you get blown out, its a learning experience.

his tonality is off, hes talking way too fast. he lead her though, and she followed him. kino is important, he cold reads her. solid game, he had a weak close.  his tonality is super off. control your voice, be cool, calm and collected.


the sense of touch is a powerful thing. nothing turns a woman faster than skin to skin contact.

hes seeking validation, gets blown out. hes leaning in. if you try hard, you die hard.

tonality is off again. he knows his material. dont say i dont know, have a comfortable silence. she qualified herself by saying she plays call idea. kino the whole time, the whole set is hooked.

speak your mind, say whatever you want whenever you want

dont lean in too much, dont ask for permission. he went for the number close wayyyy too early. dont beg. lean in led to a blow out.

confident body language, exhuberant smile, kino escalating.

nice guy with the edge. compliment than tease. call her sexy than call her a midget.

isolated her right away. dont lie. "hair stylist" never works. he leans in wayyy too much. beggggging leads to blow out. seeking validation from obstacle. if you lead she will follow.  you like my eyes, you like my lips, go for kiss.

if you ignore the obstacles you will get blown out. speak slowly. speak confidently. its not about what you say its how you say it.